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"A household located in the northern part of London is looking for an remarkable and skilled educator to guide their smallest child on his initial journey to turning into an British gentleman."

When reading this post, you might naturally overlook the wording "initial stages" as mere a turn of phrase.

But, it may be the most important part of this unique position posting, as it attempts to recruit a tutor for a one-year-old.

Numerous of submissions have since been submitted since the unnamed family posted their call for the £180k-a-year tutor, who must be "a uniquely qualified person".

Over the last few weeks, the advert has gained notice throughout the news, with several questioning why?

Progressive Approach

A tutoring expert, CEO and founder of an education consultancy, which is assisting the family in their search, stated that in spite of first doubt, he viewed the idea "forward-looking", and "advanced".

When he spoke with the family, he noted they appreciated the unusual aspect of their demand, and how early in age their son is.

Nevertheless, they clarified that they "were unwilling to delay any longer" to get a tutor, as they had waited until their older child was five, and by that age "cultural bias had already taken hold".

What exactly does the family refer to by "cultural bias"?

It's "all-encompassing", Adam replied. "How you eat, the manner you speak".

He stated the firstborn had absorbed "very nuanced, non-verbal cues" from the family, and had adopted their cultural habits. The family told him they wished to avoid this pattern to recur with their younger child.

The intention: To engage a English tutor, who should speak with RP, to guide the baby from day one.

Subtle Influence

"A great deal of the education at the outset here is rather acquired indirectly," said Adam.

It's via this osmosis that the family are aiming the child will acquire the English characteristics they want to cultivate.

He explained the tutor had to be somebody who attended "prestigious academies – similar types of schools as the family plan to send their son to".

"The tutor must be the suitable individual, they'll be carrying out things they aren't even aware they're doing, just naturally," he said.

Cost Not Relevant

The family informed the expert the successful candidate should ideally also have understanding of or enthusiasm in equestrian activities, winter sports, artistic pursuits and instrumental training so as to inspire the child in a diverse set of hobbies.

More than that though, he explained the family desired the tutor to sign up the child on a variety of lessons so the child would be "equestrian training and learning an musical instrument by the time they are approximately three years old".

In the family's minds, guiding their son grow into a "British gentleman" will result in accomplishment and create opportunities.

"Taking into account the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's certainly a status symbol," he adds.

Yet, notwithstanding all this instruction in "English culture", could the child absorb alleged cultural leaning from the international family he is raised by regardless?

"Certainly", replied the CEO. "The parents know this could fail, but they've merely embraced the attitude of, 'why not attempt it and let's go as quickly as we can', because the expense of it is not a concern," he stated.

Overly Optimistic

A number of in the education sector who have similar doubts.

Another CEO, head and founder of an educational organization, who also offer individual instructors, wrote that "the process of embracing two identities, or indeed, becoming oneself, is something that must be lived into, not designed."

Peter wrote that he had emigrated from China to the UK at the time of 7 years old, and had been brought up knowing and embodying two backgrounds. He continued to learn at the University of Cambridge.

"The concept that one individual can serve as a representation of English culture, someone who can somehow transfer the qualities of a British gentleman to a infant child, seems to me idealistic and unfeasible," he wrote.

"From my perspective, employing a distinctly English tutor from early childhood will will not automatically produce the goal they want.

"I never had such a figure, and however I have been lucky enough to experience many of the situations they hope for their son."

He stated: "The fact is, self-identity can not be forced from the outside influences; it must be embraced, and it must originate internally."

Purchasing UK Culture

Certainly, UK identity is something Adam believes can be instructed – and marketed.

"I think the fact that the world views us in this regard is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating